As always please hit me with your feedback and comments. Any kind of penetration Virginity Before sex a tampon counts. For some girls it was rape. When it is present, fully or partially, it is, instead, RIGHT at the vaginal openingits edges attached just inside that opening. A lot of guys like me have had people believing I have lost my virginity years before I really did. Hymens can tear for all sorts of reasons, including doing the splits, inserting a Virginity Before sex or, yes, having PIV sex.